Sunday, June 23, 2013

10 things or more that my husband doesn't do or can't change

1.  like and comment all my FB posts.
2.  shower me with lavish gifts.
3.  sweet talk me all the time in response to heart to heart talk.
4. forgive me right away when i did him something really bad.
5. his clothing style
6. eating veggies
7. like everything that i like doing
8. remember all important dates of our relationship
9. his family
10. say a good apology right away.
11. say all the right things and get too serious.



exceptions:

My husband was specially patient and understanding with me when i was in pinas. He takes care of me. He's like my assistance, chaperone, confidant and shock absorber. When i get really mad, he consoles. when I get mad at him, he tries to give me a hug and comfort me after a few minutes of fighting. I remember telling him i'm inscecure about the way i look, so i had to wear make up everyday. and he tells me I'm beautiful no matter what, with or without makeup , with all the creams on my face, if i haven't brushed my hair or my teeth, if i stink, he still loves me because i'm the prettiest in his eyes. i remember when i throw tantrums and eventually he would try to tell me "stop crying na, come here and give me a hug" and if i don't stop crying, he'll continue to say "sabe ng wag ng iiyak eh, ayoko na ng naiyak and he'll hug me closer to him....and he'll tell me he loves me. i also remember that one time in cavite when i started screaming at him in the room because he was ignoring me the whole time while he was watching tv... i can't evenr emember anymore what the whole story behind is. i think it's about me going to sampaloc. because he told me we'll go back there and i was hesistant and i told him "wag tayo magtatagal ha" and he got mad at me for that comment and started ignoring me. eventually he got calm and just hugged me while i was crying. I will not forget those moments when i feel like i'm the one who messed up because i became too sensitive and he still showed me that he's there for me.

i should learn to appreciate the things he does and not to focus and what he cannot do. I should avoid being too sensitive and harsh with words when I fight with him. 

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